Hen do, hen night or a full hen weekend: one invitation per guest by private link, with RSVPs, sign-up lists and a co-host seat for the maid of honour.
Every hen do starts the same way: a group chat that grows teeth. Dates, deposits, dietary requirements, someone's cousin nobody has met. HeyVite lifts it all out of the thread. Send each hen her own private invitation, give the maid of honour a co-host seat, and watch the yeses, the sign-ups and the weekend plan settle onto one calm dashboard. (Planning from the States and calling it a bachelorette? We keep a page in your dialect too.)
Everything a hen party needs, from the first invitation to the final head count.
The invitation carries everything the thread keeps burying (the dates, the plan, the cost, the postcode) and every reply lands on the dashboard instead of message four-hundred-and-something. Nobody scrolls for the address on the morning train again.
Add the maid of honour as a co-host and she gets the same live dashboard: guest list, RSVPs, sign-up lists, all of it. Two organisers, one source of truth, no forwarded screenshots and no shared password.
Friday cottage arrival, Saturday brunch, the activity, the big night out, Sunday recovery. Add each as a sub-event and every hen replies to the parts she can make. You get a true head count per activity instead of a hopeful guess.
Put the kit on a sign-up list (prosecco, decorations, the veil, the playlist, the emergency plasters) and hens claim items right from the invitation. Claimed items show as taken, so the cottage gets one speaker and enough ice.
Hen party favourites bring the sparkle: a champagne-splash toast, neon nights for the last big one, tropical luau looks for a hen abroad, and Toulouse-Lautrec's cabaret scenes for a classier do.
With HeyVite, each guest opens an invitation of their own, addressed to them alone. Who said yes, who sent regrets, who else is invited: only you, the host, hold the full picture.
See how guest privacy worksEverything you need to host a hen party with ease.
Every reply, meal and headcount on one live dashboard as it arrives.
Invite a partner or planner to help manage guests and replies.
Group several gatherings under one event, each with its own RSVP.
Guests claim items from a shared list, so nothing arrives twice.
No shared list and no name lookup. No one sees who else was invited.
Answers about hen party invitations and online RSVP on HeyVite.
Create the invitation, add your hens, and HeyVite emails each one her own private link, or you share each hen's link yourself over WhatsApp or text, which is how most hen groups run it. No app and no account needed to open it or reply, and every yes lands on your dashboard as it happens.
They're the same celebration at different sizes. A hen night is one evening out; a hen weekend is the full trip away; "hen do" and "hen party" are the catch-alls that cover both. Americans call the same thing a bachelorette party. If that's your word, HeyVite has a page under that name too.
Yes. Add her as a co-host and she sees what you see: the guest list, every RSVP, the sign-up lists. Either of you can manage the guest list and the what-to-bring lists (sending the invitations and messages stays with the host) so the planning genuinely splits in two instead of one person forwarding everything to the other.
Yes. Add the dinner, the activity, the night out and the recovery brunch as sub-events, and each hen replies to the pieces she can make, all from the same private link. The hen who can only do Saturday night still gets counted, and the cottage never over-books.
Everything works the same for the stags: a private link per guest, sub-events for the golf, the go-karts and the night out, sign-up lists for whoever's bringing what, and one dashboard for the best man. The party design collection covers the full range, from tasteful to neon.
Yes, by default, on every plan, free ones too. Every hen gets a private invitation of their own, and there is no public guest list and no name search by default, so nothing leaks to the bride if the do is a surprise. Only you and your co-host see who's in.
It's free to start. Designing, sending and RSVP tracking cost nothing, and every design comes with every plan. The free plan covers up to 75 guests, which fits almost every hen do; bigger parties take one payment for this one event ($15 for up to 150 guests, $45 for up to 300 and $110 for up to 900). No subscription.
Copy-ready wording and etiquette guides to help you send with confidence.
Pages tuned to the exact celebration you're planning.
Browse the designs your guests will keep, or see exactly what each plan includes.
