One page for the big numbers: 21st, 30th, 40th, 50th and 60th, with designs that go formal or funny and RSVPs that keep the count for you.
Some birthdays get a cake; the big ones get a proper invitation. Whether it's a 21st with the key to the door, a 40th that laughs about the number or a 60th dinner done properly, HeyVite sends each guest a private link to a designed card and gathers every yes, plus-one and meal note on one live dashboard.
Everything a milestone birthday needs, from the first invitation to the final head count.
In Australia, the UK and Ireland the 21st is the marquee birthday: the "key to the door" party, with speeches, embarrassing photos and every generation in one room. Go formal with a seated dinner card or loud with a big-night-out design; either way each guest replies through their own private link.
These are the birthdays with a sense of humor about themselves. A cocktail soirée reads "cordially invited"; a backyard party reads "29 again, for the eleventh time." The invitation sets the register, and the RSVPs, plus-ones and dietary notes track the same either way.
The later milestones are often family-hosted dinners with guests of every generation. A gallery-quality card sets the tone, and everyone from grandchildren to old colleagues replies through a simple link: no app, no account, nothing to explain over the phone.
There's no group thread for the guest of honor to stumble into and, with Guest Privacy on every plan, no public guest list and no name search by default. Put the arrive-by time on the card, keep the list between you and your co-hosts, and the secret holds until the lights come on.
Milestone favorites hold the room: a Toulouse-Lautrec cabaret night, Monet's iris garden, gilded confetti and midnight terrazzo for the party after the dinner.
With HeyVite, each guest opens an invitation of their own, addressed to them alone. Who said yes, who sent regrets, who else is invited: only you, the host, hold the full picture.
See how guest privacy worksEverything you need to host a milestone birthday with ease.
Every reply, meal and headcount on one live dashboard as it arrives.
No shared list and no name lookup. No one sees who else was invited.
Invite a partner or planner to help manage guests and replies.
Add your own questions to the RSVP and see every answer.
Answers about milestone birthday invitations and online RSVP on HeyVite.
The name and the number, proudly. The 21st is the one birthday where the age is the headline. Add the date and time, the venue, a dress note if the night has one, and a reply-by date. A nod to the "key to the door" tradition reads warmly in Australia, the UK and Ireland, where the 21st is often the biggest party of a young adulthood.
Match the party, not the number. A seated 50th dinner earns "requests the pleasure of your company"; a 40th in the backyard can open with a joke about being 29 again. Guests take their cues (outfit, gift, energy) from the register of the wording, so write the invitation for the evening you're actually throwing.
Send private invitations instead of starting a group chat. Every HeyVite guest gets their own private link, and with Guest Privacy (on every plan, free ones too) there is no public guest list and no name search by default, so there's nothing for the guest of honor to stumble onto. Print the arrive-by time on the card and let your co-host share the watch.
Yes. Add custom RSVP questions for the entrée and let guests note dietary needs as they reply. Every answer lands beside the guest's name on your dashboard, so the restaurant gets an exact head count and each guest's choice without you chasing a single text.
Ask the guest of honor first. Plenty of people want the big 4-0 in gold foil; others prefer "a birthday of unspecified but magnificent number." Both make a great invitation. The only wrong answer is guessing.
Nothing to start. Every design and every tool is free on every plan. The free plan covers up to 75 guests; a bigger party takes a single payment for this one event ($15 for up to 150 guests, $45 for up to 300 and $110 for up to 900). No subscription, nothing to cancel.
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