BAR MITZVAH
Benjamin
March 20, 2027
6:00 PM
The Grand Ballroom
Bar and bat mitzvah invitations, thoughtfully sent
A formal online invitation for every guest, with a separate RSVP for the service and the celebration and a co-host so both parents plan together.
Choose your bar & bat mitzvah design
Open a full preview, try the colourways, then personalise only when the design feels right.
Made for bar and bat mitzvahs
Everything a bar & bat mitzvah needs, from the first invitation to the final head count.
One RSVP for the service, another for the party
Many families host two gatherings: the synagogue service and the reception that follows. With sub-events you group both under one invitation and collect a separate reply for each, so you know exactly who is coming to which and can plan seating and catering with confidence.
Meal choices and head counts for the caterer
Guests record their meal choice, dietary notes and plus-ones when they RSVP, and every reply gathers per guest on one live dashboard. When the caterer or venue asks for final numbers, a glance gives you the answer. No spreadsheet, and reminders take care of the follow-up.
Both parents plan from one dashboard
Add a co-host so both parents, or a family member helping out, can add guests, watch replies arrive and share the RSVP dashboard, all from the same live view, without forwarding screenshots or sharing a password.
A private invitation for every guest
Family, classmates and friends each open their own invitation through a private invitation of their own. With Guest Privacy, included on every plan (free ones too), there is no shared guest list and no name search, so the celebration stays yours to manage.
Tools for your bar & bat mitzvah
Frequently asked questions
Answers about bar & bat mitzvah invitations and online RSVP on HeyVite.
How do I send bar and bat mitzvah invitations online?
Choose a formal design, personalize the service and party details, and add your guests by typing them in or importing a list. HeyVite delivers each guest a private link to their invitation, and they RSVP directly from the card, with replies gathering on one live dashboard.
Can I send a separate invitation for the service and the reception?
Yes. With sub-events you group the synagogue service and the party under one invitation, invite the right guests to each, and collect a separate RSVP for every part. Each guest sees only what applies to them on their own private link.
Can guests RSVP without creating an account?
Yes. Every guest replies through their own private link with no account or app needed. Their response, meal choice and plus-ones appear on your dashboard in real time, so you always have an accurate head count for the caterer.
Can both parents manage the invitations together?
Yes. Add a co-host so both parents, or a relative helping out, can add guests, keep an eye on replies and share the RSVP dashboard from the same live view. No forwarded screenshots and no shared password.
Can I collect meal choices for the caterer?
Yes. Guests record their meal choice and any dietary notes when they RSVP, and you can add custom questions for adult and child menus. Everything gathers per guest and totals on your dashboard, ready to hand to the caterer.
Is the bar or bat mitzvah guest list private?
Yes. Every guest receives a private invitation of their own. And with Guest Privacy, included on every plan (free ones too), there is no public guest list and no name search by default. No guest can see who else was invited or who has replied. Only you, the host, see the full list.
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