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A first birthday is as much a thank-you to the village that got you through year one as it is a party for the baby. Pick an example below, swap in your child's name, date and nap-friendly time, and send each guest their own private link by email, WhatsApp or text.
Sweet and classic first birthday wording
Warm, keepsake wording for family and close friends.
Warm family lunch
Twelve months of smiles, giggles and very little sleep.
Please join us to celebrate
Gideon Levi Rosen's First Birthday
Saturday, May 16, 2026 from 11:30 AM to 2:00 PM
The Rosen Garden, 142 Maplewood Avenue, Montclair, New Jersey
Lunch, lemonade and birthday cake at noon.
Kindly reply by May 6.
Classic afternoon tea
One whole year of our favorite little person.
Phoebe Claire Sterling is turning one!
Sunday, June 14, 2026 at 2:30 PM
The Conservatory at Chiswick House, London, United Kingdom
Tea, scones and a first slice of cake.
Please let us know if you can join us by June 1.
First trip around the sun
First trip around the sun, complete.
Come celebrate Caleb Asher Gold's 1st birthday!
Saturday, July 18, 2026, 10:30 AM to 1:00 PM
Trinity Bellwoods Park Pavilion, Toronto, Canada
Bagels, berries, coffee for the grown-ups and cake at 11:30.
Please RSVP by July 8.
Playful and cake-smash wording
Short, cheerful lines centered on the main event: the first taste of frosting.
Come for the cake smash
He has four teeth, two shoes and one big cake waiting for him.
Join us for Jonah Reid Miller's First Birthday!
Saturday, August 8, 2026 at 11:00 AM
48 Sycamore Lane, Evanston, Illinois
Tacos on the patio, cake smash at 11:45 sharp (before nap time!).
Please RSVP by July 29.
No gifts, just your company
Miriam Eve Stern is turning ONE!
Sunday, September 13, 2026 from 1:00 to 3:30 PM
Stern Residence, 219 Beacon Street, Brookline, Massachusetts
Older siblings are very welcome.
Your presence is the only present we need, though a favorite board book with a note inside is always treasured.
Please reply by September 2.
What should a first birthday invitation include?
Whichever tone you choose, every first birthday invitation needs the same bones: who, what, when, where, and when to reply.
Both start and end times
One-year-olds run on nap schedules, and so do most of your guests' kids. Listing a clear window (such as 11:00 AM to 1:30 PM) lets everyone arrive in time for the cake and leave before meltdown hour.
Whether siblings are welcome
Say plainly whether older brothers and sisters are invited (“siblings welcome!”) so parents do not have to text you to ask before replying.
A gentle note on gifts
If your living room is already full of toys, a simple line like “No gifts necessary, or bring a favorite children's book signed on the inside cover” gives guests clear, welcome guidance.
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Wording etiquette for first birthday invitations, answered plainly.
When should you send first birthday invitations?
Send first birthday invitations 3 to 4 weeks before the party. Weekends with young families fill up quickly, and three weeks gives grandparents and friends enough notice without being so early that schedules change.
Should you put a start and end time on a first birthday invite?
Yes. Including both the start and end time (usually a 2 to 2.5 hour window between morning and afternoon naps) tells guests when cake will be served and respects the baby's routine.
How do you politely say no gifts on a first birthday invitation?
Keep it warm and brief: “Your presence is the best gift. If you'd like to bring something small, a favorite children's book with a note from you inside would be loved.”
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